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FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE: April 8, 2004
FURTHER INFORMATION: Jeff Zack (202) 824-1506 (O),
(202) 360-9778 (Cell);
Jim McBride (202) 824-1566 (office)
Eulogy of Katherine Malone and Tye
Brown
General President Harold Schaitberger
International Association of Fire Fighters, AFL-CIO/CLC
Kansas City, KS - One of the great Greek philosophers,
EpiCurus, said, "It is possible to provide security against other ills, but
as far as death is concerned we men live in a city without walls." Today is
an especially difficult day for all of us here as we mourn the loss of Kathy
Malone and Tye Brown. The senseless murder of these two coworkers and
friends has stunned every one of us. We must acknowledge the manner of their
passing, the utter shock and tragedy of it to see and feel again their
vibrant and giving lives. Those who chose “emergency response service” as a
career know it’s more than a job, it’s a calling totally dedicated to others
and its noble workers are those willing to put themselves in harm’s way for
their fellow citizens.
And so, it’s hard to come to grips to understand the
merciless killing of two people whose job it is to save the lives of others.
In this post 9/11 world, in addition to the constant risk of terrorism, our
members are faced daily with threats from catastrophic wildfires to
infectious diseases to deadly ambushes to acts of domestic violence to
perils of the unknown. The fire fighters and paramedics assembled in this
beautiful church, as well as those who stand ready all across this country,
know full well what they are doing, the danger and sacrifice they may face.
The risk to their own personal safety is an unavoidable occupational hazard
for first responders.
Just last month, paramedics and fire fighters in Kansas City
were ambushed by gunfire as they arrived at the scene of a fire and
explosion. Sister Mary Seymour was seriously wounded in that senseless
attack and with extraordinary bravery her Brothers and Sisters from Local
I-34 and Local 42 risked their lives while still taking live fire in saving
hers. Even knowing they may face these types of incidents, my members put
themselves on the line again and again for the good of all human life and
when the loss of one of our members occurs, we see and feel the devastating
impact it has on their family and colleagues left behind, because we are
also their family.
I know this first-hand because we at the International
Association of Fire Fighters have the unenviable and tremendous
responsibility of dealing with our union member’s line of duty deaths all
too frequently. None of us will know the exact hour that we will depart this
world nor the circumstances of our leaving. And as we struggle with the
insanity of last Saturday mornings needless violence, it cannot, and must
not overwhelm our memory of the goodness of Kathy and Tye’s lives and the
wonderful effect they had on those around them. It is heartbreaking to see
the waste of two wonderful lives. We cannot help but be bewildered this day
as we ponder how Kathy and Tye two people of such devotion worth and merit
can be so savagely torn from us.
As if our grief at their loss were not heavy enough, the
circumstances of their loss only adds to the burden we bear.
It seems to me and must to you that justice surely due these
two who were themselves just is sorely lacking this day.
Some of us will wonder why fate choose Kathy and Tye and
some of us will simply believe it was God’s will. There is much in life that
we cannot avoid control or change but we can dedicate ourselves to the task
of living for those who have gone before us.
I ask today that we commit ourselves to do so for the
families, especially the children for whom seeking to understand this
tragedy is surely an insurmountable task. In talking to Kathy and Tye’s
friends, family, co-workers, and those they helped, a consistently clear
picture is reinforced of two people grounded in their work, always ready to
give what was needed and never needing to be asked along the way. Sarah
Tufty, a paramedic who worked with Kathy and Tye, recalled how they
considered every run the most important. “No two people loved their jobs
more,” she said.
So today, we must take special care to honor the memories of
Kathy and Tye.
They weren’t just co-workers they were family.
Their lives should not be summed up by their deaths. This
tragedy is only how their lives ended. The true sum of their lives was their
choice to serve others and care for human kind they both made a personal and
professional decision to spend their lives tending to those truly in need.
If we are rewarded for our good deeds on this earth, surely Tye and Kathy
will want for nothing in the eternity of their new home in heaven.
By all accounts Kathy was an exceptional human being, full
of energy and always willing to go the extra mile for friends, family and
patients. A paramedic with MAST for the last seven years, she looked forward
to a long and accomplished career, and always ready to learn more about the
job she loved. Her dedication, courage and commitment set an example among
her colleagues. Her coworkers will tell you “she was the one you’d want to
be looking down at you if you were in need of medical treatment.”
Take pride in knowing that she lived life to the fullest and
that she had such a positive influence on so many others.
I know these words ring hollow for the Malone family, her
mother, Mary Jane Malone; her birth mother, Mary Havens; sisters Heather and
Melissa; and the rest of her family have lost a loving daughter sister aunt
granddaughter. Their sense of emptiness and pain is unfathomable for those
of us who are here to share their grief and comfort them.
Tye served as an emergency medical technician for just five
years but public service was in his blood. His brother, Devlin a fire
fighter with Local 64 in Kansas City, will tell you that “his Brother used
to work as much as he could he just liked to work.” In addition to his
dedication to public service as an EMT, Tye served our country as a combat
medic in the National Guard. Whether on active duty in Somalia, Saudi
Arabia, Iraq or Germany or in his role as an EMT here, Tye always went the
extra mile to make sure whatever he did, he did as best he could. Garrett
and Tiffani, his young children, should always remember that their dad was a
good person who made helping people his life’s work.
He may be gone from this earth but he will still be with you
and with all of us for all time. Take solace in knowing that his
professional and personal life was marked by courage, character, and
selfless dedication. There is a saying that the brave too often must die,
but death cannot erase their names. The memories of Kathy Malone and Tye
Brown are already etched in all of our hearts. Everyone here will long
remember them for their professionalism and dedication to duty. Albert Pike,
a Civil War general and a crusader for justice, said, “What we have done for
ourselves alone dies with us what we have done for others and the world
remains and is immortal."
These two have left an imprint on the world touched everyone
here today and thousands more over their lifetimes. Their loss is heaven’s
gain. Although, I know that nothing I say here today can begin to fill the
void in their loved ones lives or ease the grief and the anguish over this
devastating loss, I bring you sincere condolences from the 263,000 men and
women of the International Association of Fire Fighters and the promise that
our union is there for you now and in the years to come.
And if you listen closely with your hearts, you will feel
the presence of Kathy and Tye today tomorrow and for the rest of your lives.
They may be gone from this earth but they are still with us in our hearts
and memories for all time. As we have gathered together today as one group
in our grief, let us also join as one to comfort and protect the families of
Kathy and Tye in the days ahead. As they were our Sister and Brother and
part of our IAFF family, you their loved ones, will always be part of our
extended family.
When all of the eulogies are finished, the IAFF will be here
for you today, tomorrow, next week, next year, and for years to come. Our
union has built a living memorial to the memory of every IAFF member who
makes the ultimate sacrifice.
That monument is to improve the lives of those that choose
this courageous profession and to work to increase their safety in this
dangerous business of ours.
Today in the shadow of those we have lost, we continue to
lay the foundation for that monument together in their memory as their
legacy. Take comfort and pride, too, in knowing that Kathy and Tye’s names
will be engraved on the granite walls of the IAFF Fallen Fire Fighter
Memorial in Colorado Springs so that generations to come will remember their
sacrifice and yours.
Kathy and Tye made their living giving their lives for
others. We must now give their death meaning by learning from their lives.
We all should strive to make contributions to society in our lifetimes to
our families loved ones those who depend on us.
And so, to those who have selflessly given their lives for
the good of their fellow man their tasks completed, their duties well done,
to Kathy and Tye their last alarm they are going home. From your brothers
and sisters in the IAFF, we say good-bye to our comrades.
Thank you for the gift of your life may you rest in peace
God Bless You.
About the International Association of Fire Fighters
The International Association of Fire Fighters, headquartered in
Washington, DC, is the 16th largest union among the 64 national unions that
makeup the AFL-CIO. The IAFF represents more than 263,000 full-time
professional fire fighters and emergency medical personnel who protect 80
percent of the nation’s population. More than 2,900 affiliates and their
members protect nearly 6,000 communities in every state in the Unites States
and every province in Canada.
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